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Marci
Jun 06, 2014 rated it did non like it
Although comical at times (mostly the 80s life references), I didn't find it almost every bit funny as I know the author intended me to. I think it was the overall negative tone of the book maybe? Yes, our families bulldoze usa nuts at times, simply I think you can write most them in a funny way and still be functional bunch that love each other. I'grand curious to see what other people thought of it at our book club coming together. Although comical at times (mostly the 80s life references), I didn't find information technology well-nigh as funny as I know the writer intended me to. I think it was the overall negative tone of the book maybe? Yes, our families drive us nuts at times, just I retrieve you lot can write nigh them in a funny way and all the same be functional agglomeration that dear each other. I'm curious to see what other people thought of it at our volume club meeting. ...more
Sophia
Mar 02, 2011 rated it really liked information technology
Centered effectually the family coming habitation at Thanksgiving for the family unit Christmas portrait, Erma launches into memories and observations about all the quirks of family unit life from the early years until empty nesting.

Family- The Ties That Bind And Gag isn't always from the mother perspective and it was enlightening- and enlivening- to get the married man and three kids' signal of view as well. At that place is love, but also an appreciation that loving each other doesn't mean existence akin or even having insight an

Centered around the family coming home at Thanksgiving for the family Christmas portrait, Erma launches into memories and observations well-nigh all the quirks of family life from the early on years until empty nesting.

Family- The Ties That Bind And Gag isn't always from the mother perspective and information technology was enlightening- and enlivening- to get the husband and iii kids' point of view likewise. There is dearest, but also an appreciation that loving each other doesn't mean being alike or fifty-fifty having insight and understanding.

I found it relatable even though I couldn't relate having grown upward under somewhat dissimilar circumstances and having a very unlike adulthood than this put upon mom. I suppose that is the simple charm of her essays. That son bringing his pet ophidian dwelling house cracked me up every time the snake was brought up. All in all, it was entertaining to selection upwardly now and then when I had a quick moment.

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Brenda
Apr 08, 2017 rated information technology it was ok
Merely like I recall Erma. It was like opening a time capsule from the 1980's. (I wonder what she'd have written about smart phones and social media?) But after a while I got tired of the family-bashing, fifty-fifty though that was the point of the book. Family unit is just too important. Only like I remember Erma. It was similar opening a time capsule from the 1980'southward. (I wonder what she'd take written well-nigh smart phones and social media?) Simply after a while I got tired of the family-bashing, fifty-fifty though that was the point of the volume. Family is simply too important. ...more
Achal Khaneja
Apr 11, 2021 rated information technology it was amazing
The volume connects, inspires & brings up the feeling of having been in the same shoes over and once again.

Taps into the everyday ordinary to serve upwardly an boggling read .

Chana
January 05, 2019 rated information technology information technology was ok
I read this book considering my mother gave it to me, in 1991. My merely excuse for taking so long to read information technology is that I idea I had read it already, but nooo, my mother gave me ii Erma Bombeck books. The earlier one was from when Erma was raising her young children.
This book was vaguely amusing at times. They are empty nesters when she writes this, and and then i son decides to return home while he goes dorsum to school. Every bit an most empty nester I could chronicle to some of her feelings and stories. Then t
I read this volume considering my mother gave it to me, in 1991. My simply excuse for taking so long to read it is that I thought I had read it already, but nooo, my female parent gave me two Erma Bombeck books. The earlier one was from when Erma was raising her young children.
This book was vaguely amusing at times. They are empty nesters when she writes this, and and then one son decides to return home while he goes back to schoolhouse. As an almost empty nester I could relate to some of her feelings and stories. So in that location is their reaction to that proclamation, and their reaction to taking care of the pet snake, and their interactions with their three adult children and the memories they share. My feeling here was that she was trying too hard, the fabric was not actually very funny then she had to stretch, twist and bend it to make potentially funny to her readers; for the most part it didn't work, at least for me.
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Tommy Verhaegen
This book may not be as hilarious as is mentioned on the embrace, it is very funny indeed. Mot people with children will recognize some or even all of the situations described. Although non so funny when information technology happens to yous personally it is certainly funny to read nigh information technology and realise that you are non lonely in your ordeal. Erma Bombeck writes about everyday situations where real life does not friction match tv make-belief. Embarrassing, downright filthy sometimes merely always trying to exercise the all-time for This book may not be as hilarious as is mentioned on the embrace, information technology is very funny indeed. Mot people with children volition recognize some or even all of the situations described. Although non then funny when it happens to you lot personally information technology is certainly funny to read most information technology and realise that you lot are not alone in your ordeal. Erma Bombeck writes about everyday situations where real life does not lucifer television brand-belief. Embarrassing, downright filthy sometimes but always trying to do the best for the familiy and bring up the children "right". Never understanding why things that seem so simple for other people e'er plow out horribly worng when you try information technology. Is it yous or are information technology your children (or spouse, parents, ...)? Never mind, in the end information technology is all the love that counts and makes it worhtwille, right??? ...more
Bill
I recall Erma Bombeck from TV back in the 80s. She was funny. I was 'told' to read this book by an employee and started it thinking I wouldn't like it. Information technology really caught me after the first 25 pages. It certainly had some funny lines and images. But what really caught me was how it brought so many memories of growing upward, interacting with sibs and parents and beingness a parent myself. I had so much in common with her family it's a scrap scary. Nosotros either had similar experiences or families are more than ali I recollect Erma Bombeck from TV back in the 80s. She was funny. I was 'told' to read this volume past an employee and started it thinking I wouldn't similar it. It really caught me after the first 25 pages. It certainly had some funny lines and images. Only what really caught me was how it brought so many memories of growing up, interacting with sibs and parents and beingness a parent myself. I had then much in common with her family it's a scrap scary. We either had similar experiences or families are more alike than different. ...more than
H Gibson
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Bruce
Oct 07, 2018 rated it liked it
Erma was a gem; a wonderful documentarian and satirist of American family life in the early second half of the last century. Without her and groundbreaking female stand-ups like Joan Rivers and Phyllis Diller, we wouldn't have a whole array of wise nifty, teasing TV sitcom moms, from Roseanne to Reba, from Cybil to Grace.

Obviously, given the nasty reviews some have written here, her biting humour nigh motherhood, being a wife, and running a household don't resonate with young folks today, and

Erma was a gem; a wonderful documentarian and satirist of American family unit life in the early 2nd half of the final century. Without her and groundbreaking female person stand up-ups like Joan Rivers and Phyllis Diller, we wouldn't have a whole array of wise cracking, teasing TV sitcom moms, from Roseanne to Reba, from Cybil to Grace.

Patently, given the nasty reviews some take written here, her biting humor almost motherhood, being a wife, and running a household don't resonate with young folks today, and I think that'south a shame; they seem to have lost the ability to savor the brand of wry, winking sarcasm that skewers both her loved ones and herself.

Her newspaper columns and previous books were reliably funny, and even with some very dated 1980s references (VCR cassettes and aeriform antennas, anyone?), there are plenty of chuckles and snorts in this one. They probably could have tightened information technology up a bit earlier release--cutting well-nigh 20% of the essays would have made for more condensed laughs--but even though there are a few dull ones, very few are outright clunkers.

Counter to the accusations of not actually caring for her family that have been lobbed by some fellow reviewers hither, there's also a palpable melancholy running through this collection. When talking most her now empty nest, or when observing the interactions between her developed kids when they make a full house once again every holiday, Erma looks dorsum wistfully on the times when she had a home full of sloppy, bickering, wonderful children. Ii examples in particular that stood out to me:

"Friends are "annuals" that need seasonal nurturing to conduct blossoms. Family is a "perennial" that comes upward yr after year, enduring the droughts of absence and neglect. At that place'southward a place in the garden for both of them," and

"I never realized as I dedicated my life to ring-effectually-the-collar that cleanliness is not next to godliness...children are."

Come on, tell me that sounds like a woman who doesn't love her family!

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Matt Mazenauer
Sep 02, 2013 rated it did not like information technology
My god. For some reason, I accept addicted memories of this book from when I was in heart school, so I continued to slog through it now, more than in a desperate attempt to sympathise my past cocky than out of any hope to find something of quality in this trashy drove.

This is a collection of rambling stream-of-consciousness writing for no greater humor than the title. No exaggeration, information technology reads as a string of balmy gags that never builds to annihilation. The average standup is amend tied together than any

My god. For some reason, I have fond memories of this book from when I was in middle school, so I continued to slog through information technology now, more than in a desperate endeavour to empathise my past cocky than out of any hope to find something of quality in this trashy collection.

This is a collection of rambling stream-of-consciousness writing for no greater humor than the title. No exaggeration, it reads as a string of balmy gags that never builds to anything. The average standup is better tied together than whatsoever chapter of this volume.

But the worst feature is the subject matter. She utilizes every tired stereotype about family life and gender roles, pushing them to a strange exhausted extreme where y'all wonder if she actually likes being a wife or female parent. However, there'southward certainly nothing that could be considered pushing the envelope, as information technology's all in a veneer of sickly sweet sunday morning cartoons. The final product simply feels similar a desperate help letter of the alphabet from someone every bit passed through Miss Manners.

Depressing and most entirely unfunny, I institute myself groanign and frustrated throughout.

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Priya Patankar
Mar 24, 2013 rated information technology really liked it
I love Erma Bombeck. At that place are very few authors - (P.Yard Wodehouse and to an extent David Sedaris) who tin make me laugh - she is one of them. I find myself chuckling and laughing out aloud over the way she describes her daily domestic dealings and interactions with her kids and family. Although some of the situations seem a bit dated (waiting for long distance calls) the humor is spot-on. In terms of plot, Erma's books are similar talking to a pal - a series of incidents - all very apparent if you h I love Erma Bombeck. At that place are very few authors - (P.G Wodehouse and to an extent David Sedaris) who tin brand me laugh - she is one of them. I find myself chuckling and laughing out aloud over the way she describes her daily domestic dealings and interactions with her kids and family. Although some of the situations seem a fleck dated (waiting for long altitude calls) the humor is spot-on. In terms of plot, Erma's books are like talking to a pal - a series of incidents - all very credible if yous have a mom, a family and kids. This book of course deals with a time when all the three Bombeck kids come home for a visit and one of them decides to make the visit a permanent one. The empty nest is suddenly a bit too full and Erma is at her acerbic yet quirky best. ...more
Carolee Weber
December 05, 2014 rated information technology did non similar it
I really tried to get through this 1 for the sake of the volume group discussion. In that location were a few humorous parts and I remember thinking her newspaper cavalcade was funny. Just this had just too much of her sarcastic, deprecating style of sense of humor and it got very tiresome to me. I would accept liked a picayune more of the sentimental stuff that reminded me that she really did like her kids and parenting really tin can be a great joy. It's also quite dated. I ended upwards skimming through the last half of the book I really tried to go through this one for the sake of the book grouping discussion. At that place were a few humorous parts and I remember thinking her newspaper column was funny. But this had just as well much of her sarcastic, deprecating style of humor and it got very tiresome to me. I would have liked a little more than of the sentimental stuff that reminded me that she really did like her kids and parenting really can be a great joy. It'southward also quite dated. I ended upward skimming through the terminal half of the book. ...more
Kaethe
Jul 09, 2014 rated it it was amazing
Bombeck had a monthly column in Good Housekeeping that I always read growing upwardly. Affection for her writing is deep in my psyche. Deep plenty that fifty-fifty after I stopped reading the magazine I continued to read and bask her books.

So, I'd recommend this to adults looking for a taste of nostalgia, a light read, and for kids, who will be tickled by the antics of family unit life.

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Bombeck had a monthly cavalcade in Proficient Housekeeping that I always read growing up. Amore for her writing is deep in my psyche. Deep enough that fifty-fifty later on I stopped reading the magazine I continued to read and savor her books.

So, I'd recommend this to adults looking for a gustation of nostalgia, a light read, and for kids, who volition exist amused by the antics of family unit life.

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Valerie
May 20, 2009 rated it liked it
Recommended to Valerie past: Employee Volume Lodge
Slightly funny at times, simply mostly over my head in the sense that I am a young, newly married woman without any kids. Most of the jokes are directed at women with families, especially with grow children. Peradventure twenty years from now if I accept kids information technology will mean more to me.
Marty
Jan 31, 2008 rated it it was ok
This didn't seem to exist as funny as some of her books - but information technology sure brought dorsum memories of family things at times - and a smile with them. Not my favorite and a deadening read. This didn't seem to be equally funny as some of her books - only it certain brought back memories of family unit things at times - and a smile with them. Not my favorite and a tiresome read. ...more than
Jessica
Jul 07, 2008 rated it did non like it
Worst book I ever almost finished. Only book I've ever started and then stopped reading just because information technology was so terrible. Fail. Worst volume I always virtually finished. Only book I've ever started and then stopped reading just because it was and so terrible. FAIL. ...more than
Joanne
Aug 25, 2014 rated it it was amazing
When the family unit is driving you Nuts, read this book. Nothing fixes family insanity like a proficient express joy!
Melissa
Jul 01, 2018 rated it really liked it
On dating:

"In 1955, 2,073,719 male child babies were built-in. Out of that number, 872,638 died in the war, in accidents or of natural causes, leaving 1,201,081...Since ten percent get married and five percent go divorced, you can assume fifteen percentage of this total are marrying and divorcing one some other, leaving i,020,919. Homosexuals represent possibly 10 percent, bringing the eligibles down to 918,827. Of the little less than a meg eligibles roaming around, v pct don't know their sign and don't even ca

On dating:

"In 1955, two,073,719 male child babies were born. Out of that number, 872,638 died in the state of war, in accidents or of natural causes, leaving 1,201,081...Since 10 pct get married and five percent get divorced, you tin assume 15 percent of this total are marrying and divorcing one another, leaving 1,020,919. Homosexuals represent possibly 10 percentage, bringing the eligibles down to 918,827. Of the little less than a meg eligibles roaming around, five pct don't know their sign and don't even care. Another 5 percent are tied to their mothers by a nutrient fixation. That leaves simply twenty percent who are searching for a girl who will pick up their apparel, run their baths, fire her fingers shelling their three-minute eggs, run their errands, bear them a child every year, look like a style model, tend their needs when they are sick, and hold down a full-time job outside the dwelling to make payments on their gunkhole. As well, Grandma has already been on my case. She said all I need is a dainty personality and a sense of humor and they'll be standing in line at my frond door."

"Grandma...told me that too. I'thou no dummy, When I was in schoolhouse, I saw boys engagement girls with the personality of a leftover, but if she was stacked, she could get a engagement to accept her to have her teeth cleaned."

"Personality and sense of humor got to be a joke...then information technology got to be a stigma...She has a slap-up personality...or...He has a wonderful sense of sense of humor."

On a homo's chair:

"I learned the importance of a man's chair early in life. I learned that he may love several wives, encompass several cars, exist true to more than than one political philosophy, and be equally committed to several careers, but he will have simply ane comfy chair in his life.

"I learned it volition exist an ugly chair.
"it will match nothing in the entire house.
"It will never clothing out.
"From September through Jan during the football season it was his home."

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Gina  Clabo
I have laughed and then hard reading this book. And then the tears came behind it knowing Erma is no longer with us and to have the pleasure to read her life is merely so awing and heartfelt. I can say she is the aforementioned age as I am at present when she wrote this book in 87 and my daughter was built-in in 88 I was 16, at present in 2020 my daughter one kid makes up all of Erma's 3 kids. What she describes as a female parent through the years of her kids growing up is what my child did and still doing. I love the terminal affiliate of the I have laughed so hard reading this book. Then the tears came behind it knowing Erma is no longer with us and to have the pleasure to read her life is simply and so awing and heartfelt. I can say she is the same age as I am now when she wrote this book in 87 and my daughter was built-in in 88 I was 16, now in 2020 my daughter one kid makes up all of Erma'due south 3 kids. What she describes as a mother through the years of her kids growing upwardly is what my child did and even so doing. I love the last chapter of the book which boils down to Family unit whether y'all want to sell them, they drive you crazy or they make you experience old you lot will always love them...Thanks Erma, Bill and Kids for a neat laugh and a expect at a non so perfect family just notwithstanding perfect in your ain way. I hope you kids have institute what your mom always wanted you lot to take... Happiness. Recommend to all families, friends and anyone needing a good look at existent life.. Oh and laugher.. Praises to Kathryn Parise for the most awesome and cute comprehend ever.. Gina Clabo ...more
Genette
April 20, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I beloved Mrs. Bombeck's sense of humour and this book was everything I expected. She highlights a lot of truths with some slight (or maybe more than 'slight') exaggerations about family and society that simply serve to drive abode the point.

I think it'due south funny how many people consider her view on family unit overtly negative. I don't become that feeling from her writings at all. Her anecdotes are near the idiosyncrasies of raising a family, poking just as much fun at herself every bit at the people around her. To me

I love Mrs. Bombeck'due south sense of humour and this book was everything I expected. She highlights a lot of truths with some slight (or possibly more than than 'slight') exaggerations about family unit and society that only serve to drive home the point.

I think it's funny how many people consider her view on family overtly negative. I don't get that feeling from her writings at all. Her anecdotes are almost the idiosyncrasies of raising a family, poking just as much fun at herself as at the people effectually her. To me, the message is clear: family unit can test your patience, drive you lot crazy, and turn your utility room into a ophidian pit, just give thanks God we have them.

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Berry Muhl
I call up having seen some of Bombeck's performances on television, and had read some of her columns every bit a kid. She's wry, witty and sentimental, and fairly well-mannered and vanilla in her delivery.

I enjoyed the book, but it didn't make me laugh out loud. Perhaps it suffered somewhat by comparison to the Dave Barry I'd read just before picking this one up. I would recommend it mostly to mothers and folks who feel somewhat underappreciated by their families. Folks exterior the target audition wou

I call back having seen some of Bombeck's performances on idiot box, and had read some of her columns as a child. She's wry, witty and sentimental, and fairly well-mannered and vanilla in her delivery.

I enjoyed the book, just information technology didn't brand me express mirth out loud. Perhaps it suffered somewhat past comparison to the Dave Barry I'd read just before picking this one up. I would recommend it by and large to mothers and folks who experience somewhat underappreciated by their families. Folks exterior the target audience would probably not relate very closely.

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Clint
Dec 02, 2017 rated it liked it
Humorist Erma Bombeck, who died more than 20 years ago, writes about family unit — all families through the lens of her family unit. At the time of her writing, none of her three grown children were married and one was moving back home every bit she and her husband were contemplating empty-nest syndrome. Though some of the observations in the at present thirty-year-old book seem dated with newer technology and the machinations of a newer generation now the historic period of her children and then, many of the chapters yet have nu Humorist Erma Bombeck, who died more than 20 years ago, writes most family — all families through the lens of her family. At the time of her writing, none of her three grown children were married and one was moving back domicile as she and her husband were contemplating empty-nest syndrome. Though some of the observations in the now xxx-year-old book seem dated with newer engineering and the machinations of a newer generation now the age of her children then, many of the chapters all the same have nuggets almost the worth — despite the hassles — of raising a family. ...more
Sa Schmidt
I have always wanted to read Erma. She is now a bit dated with her antics of the suburban housewife and mother, notwithstanding I still got quite a few crack ups on her written sarcastic words in this book.

I did feel that it besides came off as a bit of also much negative on the family relationships, only I know she does this for comedy purposes. Merely, towards the finish, I did get tired of the sarcasm and made information technology a chip too long of a volume for me on that.

Lisa
Jun 15, 2020 rated it liked it
I have a deep fondness for Erma Bombeck. Her books were in my parents homes as I grew up and she'due south a local celebrity. She'south from Dayton Ohio and i live near Dayton.

This was like a time capsule of my teen years so I enjoyed the fourscore'southward references. I didn't particularly savour the nastiness speaking nigh family unit, even though I could relate to all of information technology.
Super quick read.

Rachel
I thought possibly I remembered Bombeck being funnier than she actually was from my childhood days because the first of her books I read afterward some fifteen years was amusing but non as wildly funny equally I expected, but this 1 restored my expectations. I recall this might have been one of the ones nosotros read every bit kids. It'due south such a funny but also touching look into family life, and I enjoyed it a lot. I thought maybe I remembered Bombeck being funnier than she actually was from my childhood days considering the first of her books I read after some xv years was amusing but non every bit wildly funny as I expected, but this one restored my expectations. I think this might have been i of the ones we read as kids. It'southward such a funny simply also touching await into family unit life, and I enjoyed it a lot. ...more
Pam
April 19, 2021 rated it really liked it
How tin can you lot non honey Erma Bombeck? Her wisdom and insight written into brilliant humour merely makes me laugh.
This book is all nearly her three children coming home for a few days during the holidays. How some things never change and neither do families.
Seeing the sense of humour in everything. Though this is rather dated, (1980s) information technology's timeless and delightful.
Brooke
Jan 22, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I accept to requite information technology 5 stars for making me laugh out loud. I really appreciated her sense of humour about families and she likewise is capable of some tender moments. I needed to laugh and this was the perfect medicine. I'll be reading more of her books!
Alana
Feb 20, 2018 rated information technology liked it
I first read this back in the fourscore's. I yet had a adept laugh, but went from laughing at how the parents idea of their children, to how the children recall of the parents. Information technology got a piffling slow in some areas, but information technology worked to lighten up my mood. I starting time read this back in the lxxx'due south. I still had a skilful laugh, merely went from laughing at how the parents idea of their children, to how the children retrieve of the parents. It got a little irksome in some areas, but it worked to lighten up my mood. ...more
Betsy
Jul 28, 2018 rated it really liked it
Erma Bombeck was big in the lx's & 70'south. This book was written in 1987, and it's nonetheless relevant today. It might even be older than that! Y'all can see your kids, and your parents, in this book! Funny & touching, in places. Erma Bombeck was big in the lx's & 70's. This book was written in 1987, and it'south notwithstanding relevant today. It might even be older than that! You tin run across your kids, and your parents, in this volume! Funny & touching, in places. ...more
Erma Louise Bombeck, born Erma Fiste, was an American humorist who achieved great popularity for a paper column that depicted suburban home life humorously, in the 2d one-half of the 20th century.

For 31 years since 1965, Erma Bombeck published 4,000 paper manufactures. Already in the 1970s, her witty columns were read, twice weekly, by 30 million readers of 900 newspapers of United states and Canada

Erma Louise Bombeck, built-in Erma Fiste, was an American humorist who accomplished great popularity for a newspaper column that depicted suburban home life humorously, in the second half of the 20th century.

For 31 years since 1965, Erma Bombeck published 4,000 newspaper articles. Already in the 1970s, her witty columns were read, twice weekly, by thirty 1000000 readers of 900 newspapers of USA and Canada. Too, the bulk of her 15 books became instant best sellers.

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